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The holiday of Purim celebrates the courage of Persia’s Queen Esther, who, at risk to her life, revealed herself as a Jew to her husband, the king, in order to save her community from destruction.
Jewish author Anita Diamant calls Purim “the universal Jewish holiday of release, springtime, laughter, and excess." It is a time to celebrate and liberate everything that is usually oppressed. Jews have celebrated Purim for hundreds of years with parties, carnivals, and parades; a drag ball is the perfect addition. Guests are encouraged to come dressed in drag or a liberating costume. | Queen Esther's Drag Ball - Purim 2012
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Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Beit Ahavah - Queen Esther’s Drag Ball & Dance Party - Northampton - March 10
Monday, February 27, 2012
A healthy response to Georgia’s harmful “Strong4Life” campaign
(The image that accompanies this post is my and my partner Julia McCrossin*’s Standard – we stand for love that comes in all shapes, sizes and genders.)
See all the current Standards posters here: http://istandagainstweightbullying.tumblr.com/
Some Standards will become bus shelter posters in Atlanta! And we'll have billboards! We gathered 1,010 donors (from all over the country and world) and raised $21,721.20, including a $5,000 matching grant from More Of Me To Love. Then we solicited submissions and votes from our supporters, voting for up to three of seven designs. Here's the winner (and good news about Disney's anti-fat exhibit "Habit Heroes"):
http://danceswithfat.wordpress.com/2012/02/26/disney-and-georgia-billboard-updates/
http://ponderousboundaries.blogspot.com/2012/01/stand4kids.html
http://ponderousboundaries.blogspot.com/2012/02/rest-of-fat-story.html
Today at 41, Julia is happy, healthy, and a wonderful partner – but still healing from these traumas and being affected by current fat shaming.
Facebook communities:
"I Stand Against Weight Bullying" (almost 600 members)
https://www.facebook.com/IStandAgainstWeightBullying
Communing With Our Trans Kindred - A Conversation for the Black Church

"I am so excited about this ground-breaking event, which creates an opportunity for African American Church communities to gain more understanding about Black transgender experiences. We know where to find transgender and LGBT activists. But for this event we need your help reaching out to folks who are not already in those circles.
We need help making this Spirit filled worship opportunity known to mothers and fathers, aunts and uncles, pastors who mean well, and others who may need a helping hand on the journey to understanding.
-- Could you make a personal invitation to someone you know who would benefit from this?
-- Could you think of pastors, deacons, church mothers or other folks immersed in Black Church community and make sure they hear about this event?
-- Could you pass this along to others who may be supportive and ask them to do likewise?
-- Would you take a moment to pray for this opportunity to reach the people who are most in need of this kind of opportunity?
Details can also be found here (including an article and postcard in pdf form):
Communing With Our Trans Kindred — A Conversation for the Black Church
http://hub.transfaithonline.org/events/philadelphia_pa_in_march_2012/transkindred/
or
http://hub.transfaithonline.org/events/philadelphia_pa_in_march_2012/
Thanks so much!
Chris"
Friday, February 24, 2012
HBGC - Lesbians of Color Symposium - March 3rd
Inaugural Lesbians of Color Symposium
- Mandy Cater - Social Justice Activist and Co-Founder of the National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC) and Southerns On New Ground (SONG).
- Ryan Holmes & Genesis Tramaine - Founders of bklyn boihood. bklyn boihood is a collective that creates visibility and builds community within masculine of center bois, lesbians, queers, trans-identified, studs, doms, butches and AGs of color through online media, events, workshops and collaborative projects.
- Alyssa Asomani, Founder & Editor of STUD Magazine. Stud Magazine is an online based magazine founded in Toronto with an aim to redifine the term stud and introduce non gender conforming people to mainstream media.
- Health and Wellness
- Gender Expression/Identity
- Spirituality
- Self Advocacy/Social Activism
- Relationships …and more
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Mass. NOW event "I Heart Equal Rights" - NEXT TUESDAY
Mass. NOW's event "I Heart Equal Rights" is NEXT TUESDAY, February 28th here in Boston (just a week from today).
Mass. NOW is the MA chapter of the National Organization for Women, and this year's event will celebrate the passage of the MA Trans Equal Rights Bill and honor the Massachusetts Transgender Political Coalition's Executive Director Gunner Scott. This is a fundraiser for Mass. NOW and includes light refreshments and a silent auction.
For more information -- and to get this image or a red, pink and purple version for your very own:
http://www.facebook.com/events/368961406462585/
http://iheartequalrights.eventbrite.com/
http://www.massnow.org/i-heart-equal-rights/
http://campaign.r20.constantcontact.com/render?llr=tgfwrecab&v=001E6oef0cghO_tnfQb5Aa1vMie9pGlzckDHHf1YjQAIZZFIqWvV60JW8t3iraW1W60rNxtIYu8WX60-TIC2ehJH4Flz6T-r1wkUVAO7YafJwI%3D
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Trans panel event - 1st Parish UU Milton MA - NEXT WEDNESDAY
This just in from my colleague Jamez Terry, who is one of the panelists:
"Common Hearth: Understanding Transgender Identity, Practicing Radical Hospitality
Wednesday, February 15, 7:30pm in the Parish Hall
This interactive panel discussion will explore transgender identities and experiences, particularly in relation to faith and church community. Together we will consider ways that First Parish can be more welcoming and inclusive of the trans people in our midst. Panelists include Red Durkin, a Brooklyn-based trans advocate and widely acclaimed comedienne; Alex Kapitan, Congregational Justice Administrator for LGBT Ministries at the Unitarian Universalist Association; and Jamez Terry, founder and organizer of the nationally touring Tranny Roadshow. This all-star group brings a wealth of experience and perspective to share. Don't miss this opportunity to grow more fully into our identity as radical welcomers! Childcare is available by advance request to assistantmin@fpmilton.org."
Monday, February 6, 2012
Femme 2012 conference - call for workshops, papers & much more
I don't know much about this, but I saw it in MTPC's newsletter (http://www.icontact-archive.com/a3pl2DehLErMRaYi3ELGrbnrAzlpgpde?w=2)
and appreciated that it was explicitly and strongly inclusive of "fat folks". For some reason this doesn't say it, but the con is August 17th through 19th in Baltimore MD. As a femme myself, and a not so included one, I am quite tempted -- but I probably already have enough cons etc. this year (I know, and it's only February!).
Monday, January 23, 2012
Celebrating Victory, Pursuing Truth
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Speeches in the Senate Reading Room |
cross-posted atWalking with Integrity
On this bright January morning, as the hour of 11am neared, I emerged from Boston’s Park Street T stop, turned left and began walking up the hill toward the State House. Today (or rather, at this late hour, yesterday) marked the ceremonial signing of the Transgender Equality bill here in Massachusetts. This legislation, first filed in 2007, passed on November 15th, and officially signed on November 23rd, adds gender identity and expression to the state’s existing hate crimes law and the nondiscrimination statutes in the areas of housing, employment, education and credit. In a fitting twist, the week of its official passage was also Transgender Awareness Week, a time of educational and community events leading up to the eleventh annual observance of Trans Day of Remembrance on November 20th.
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Representative Rushing, photo from masstpc.org |
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Governor Deval Patrick signs the bill, photo from masstpc.org |
CP
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
MLK / Trans Service at All Souls UU church (Greenfield MA) THIS SUNDAY

I'm giving the sermon, and lay leader Trystan Dean is Worship Host.
Here's Trystan's Facebook event -- "Celebrating the New Trans Civil Rights Law on MLK Day in Greenfield!" -- http://www.facebook.com/events/342704142425061/
And here is All Souls' publicity blurb:
"The Martin Luther King Day service at All Souls UU Church of Greenfield on Sunday, January 15, 2012 at 10:00 am will be led by Mycroft Masada Holmes, who will deliver the sermon, “In The Image Of God – Transgender Equality in Massachusetts” Mycroft will be speaking about the state of transgender equality in Massachusetts, particularly the Transgender Equal Rights Bill passed in November, 2011 and the faith community’s vital role in its campaign.
Our worship host will be Trystan Dean. Music will be performed and led by Tina Waldron.
Mycroft Masada Holmes is an interfaith transgender leader based in hir native Boston, Massachusetts. Mycroft is Chair of the Interfaith Coalition for Transgender Equality (ICTE), a Steering Committee member and Faith Liaison at the Massachusetts Transgender Political Coalition (MTPC), the Emeritus Founding Chair of Keshet’s Transgender Working Group (TWiG) and a board member of Congregation Am Tikva. Mycroft is also a thin ally in the fat / size acceptance and social justice movement, and a writer and artist."
I'll add the order of service / worship next week.
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
MA Trans Equal Rights Bill public signing next Thursday January 19th!
Thurs. Jan 19th, Gov. Deval Patrick to hold a Ceremonial Signing of the Transgender Equal Rights Bill
Friday, December 23, 2011
Lowell Sun's anti-trans editorial -- faith community response
The Lowell (MA) Sun published an anti-trans editorial this week -- focusing on Chaz Bono and the Transgender Equal Rights Bill -- authored by Dan Phelps and titled "Christmas Carols -- With A Twist":
http://www.lowellsun.com/portal/ci_19577635?IADID=Search-www.lowellsun.com-www.lowellsun.com&fb_source=message&_loopback=1#ixzz1h1UIAkMG
Here is the faith community's response, emailed to the Sun today. Special thanks to the Transgender Equal Rights Coalition media team for all their help!
It was disappointing to read Dan Phelps’ recent column mocking our transgender parents, siblings, children, neighbors, and friends. It was even more heartwrenching to read it during this time of year, which is typically marked with a spirit of goodwill toward all.
Transgender people bear the burden of misunderstanding and marginalization. That is why so many people of faith -- including the 2008 Diocesan Convention of the Episcopal Diocese of Massachusetts, the Right Reverend M. Thomas Shaw and more than 150 other faith leaders around the state -- supported passage of the Transgender Equal Rights Bill, which extends basic civil rights protections in housing, credit, schools, and employment to some of the Commonwealth’s most vulnerable residents.
It is up to all of us -- particularly during this holiday season -- to recognize the dignity and worth of all people, including transgender people. We should do this within our individual faith traditions as well as within the broader community. We are a stronger, more compassionate society when everyone is valued for who they are, and treated with dignity and respect.
Rev. Dr. Cameron Partridge
Interfaith Coalition for Transgender Equality, Episcopal Chaplain at Boston University
Marla Marcum and Rev. Leigh Dry
Co-Chairs, Reconciling Ministries Sub-Committee of the Committee on Church and Society of the United Methodist Church in New England
Idit Klein
Executive Director, Keshet
Mycroft Masada Holmes
Chair, Interfaith Coalition for Transgender Equality
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Trans & a patient at Fenway Health within the last 3 years?
Monday, December 12, 2011
Marilyn Wann's wannderful work


Thursday, December 8, 2011
Cartoonist Barry Deutsch & his toons re: fat, LGBT people, & much more


Monday, December 5, 2011
LGBTQ Kabbalat Shabbat Service & Potluck - Cambridge MA - THIS FRIDAY
DEC

Celebrate LGBTQ Kabbalat Shabbat and Potluck
Cambridge, MA 02139
Congregation Eitz Chayim celebrates the LGBTQ community December 9, 2011. Join us for a joyful lay-lead participatory Kabbalat Shabbat service at 7pm, which will include readings from GLBTQ liturgy and writers. After the oneg at 8pm we will have a fabulous potluck tisch.* Bring food (veggie/dairy), a bottle of wine, a story, a song, a dvar, or a poem to share, or helping hands to arrange the tables. As we head into winter, help us create a really warm spot in Cambridge!
Our special guests for the evening include members of GLBT shul Congregation Am Tikva in Brookline http://www.amtikva.org/. Our tisch will be led by guest facilitator Yaakov Reefhttp://yreef.com/ from TBS.
We will do a short text study during the service, pondering what it was like for Dina to go out into the land, into an unfamiliar and hostile territory. There will be ample time at the tisch to dig deeper into Dina’s story or any part of Parashat Vayishlach (Genesis 32:4 - 36:43), and to hear the stories you bring to the table.
RSVPs are greatly appreciated, in order for us to plan the food, but are not required. If you can bring food, savory rather than dessert would be best. Contact Penina Weinberg at president@eitz.org to RSVP or for more information.
Eitz Chayim is an egalitarian, inclusive, non-denominational synagogue whose members are of all ages and family configurations, and who come from a wide range of religious, ethnic, class, family, and cultural backgrounds. We welcome YOU to celebrate Shabbat with us.
A parking consideration is in effect on Friday nights. Park within a couple blocks of Eitz Chayim and put a note on your dashboard that you are attending services.
"The violets in the mountains have broken the rocks." --Tennessee Williams, Camino Real
*A tisch is literally a table – but in the Hasidic world it’s much more than that! Come prepared to eat, sing, bang on the table, tell stories, teach, and learn a little, maybe drink!